Annoying People

Hey guys :) 

So in this blog you'll be able to read about ... being happy and how to achieve stuff... ehh I don't really know how to explain it- but you'll get the jist eventually... :)

I’m going to be talking about annoying people today... we’ve all been annoyed before. There’s always that one person who just pisses us off and you just wanna.. slap them silly. It might not even be a person, it could be a thing. And we usually end up making a big deal out of their... annoying-ness... even though it might not be worth it. There will ALWAYS be something that you just can’t stand in life.

The Backstabber:

A few years ago, I met this girl who was sort of like my bestie for awhile. I trusted her with everything and.. I just looked past all of her flaws. I didn’t realize that she wasn’t as great as I thought she was. The secrets that I told her were being spread around the whole school and one day in science class, I overheard her insulting me and making fun of the way I looked. One day when i was wearing sweats and sneakers and just an old t-shirt, she walked right up to me and said “You look disgusting”. I may seem paranoid and I probably am, but I was so insecure back then and sometimes I still am, it just hurt me so much. Even today, I still can’t forgive her, most of you guys must be thinking “wow just forgive and forget” but it really isn’t that easy. There was so much more that she did to me. But hating her just makes me miserable and it’s limiting my life... I can’t trust certain people who are close with her and it’s just not easy.

          Cocky People:

          I hate cocky people. Ok I don’t hate them but they drive me insane.... just absolutely insane. Like it’s good that you’re proud of yourself and stuff, but like... stop rubbing it in.. seriously just stfu. I’m fine with like joking around about it and a hint of sarcasm, that’s funny and it shows that you have a great personality. But if you’re like legit serious then.. u need help. People don’t need to know that you’re smarter than most people and that you have nice eyes. It’s annoying to have to hear someone go on and on about how “great” they are for an hour or even just a few minutes.

          The Sluts:

          Girls, you are all gorgeous. And you can still be gorgeous with clothes on. Some guys may like sluts, but if they like you for your chest and thighs, then he really isn’t worth it. I understand that sometimes you feel beautiful wearing something revealing. But it’ll just give you a bad rep. Does anyone else like ever go to school and you’re like walking down the halls and there’s some chick wearing short-shorts and like this belly button shirt and the first thing that comes to mind is *slut* ? First of all, this is SCHOOL... people don’t wanna see your underwear.. unless you have like a pedo teacher or other perverted people at your school ... No but seriously, you’re gorgeous and amazing and what you wear won’t change what people think of you and if it does then they’re not worth being a part of your life. Don’t wear makeup- it ruins your perfection.

          The Liars:

          We’ve all lied; you’d be lying if you said you’ve never lied. It sorta annoys me when people say “I’ve never told a lie in my life” and they’re serious about it... cuz you have. Sometimes I’ll say it as a joke or something but I know- and people know -that I’ve lied. School and work can be intimidating, at school people compete, you wanna be popular and stuff. If you’re lying about yourself then... you don’t really love yourself. I remember this girl who told everyone that she was Muslim because she wanted them to like her for some reason.. she told people that her mom was white and that her dad was Lebanese. (We lived in an area where a lot of the kids were Muslim, I have nothing against them, I love my Muslim friends. :* ) One day a friend of mine asked her sister if her family was really Muslim and it turns out that she was lying. Everyone called her a liar and a poser and only a few people were still friends with her after that. If they were really her friends in the first place, they wouldn’t have cared- I don’t even think they were racist.. they were just mad at her for lying.

         

I guess everyone finds different things annoying.. sluts, liars, cocky people, and back-stabbers were just the first things that popped up in my head. Living with people that bring your mood down sucks. People who annoy you on purpose only do it because they want to see your reaction so don’t give them the satisfaction of winning or they’ll just continue. Just walk away and ignore it, trust me, anyone who grew up with siblings would know that trying to annoy someone who’s ignoring you isn’t as fun as annoying someone who’ll give a good reaction.

Annoying people aren’t all that annoying if you ignore them. Get to know them.. I bet most annoying people are actually pretty awesome. Sometimes you just have to over look people’s annoying-ness and love them for their amazing-ness. 
That guy who kicks the back of your chair, that girl with attitude... they're human too... and things annoy them too. If talking to them and telling them to just "stop" doesn't help, tell a teacher, you're not being a snitch you're standing up for yourself. And as for forgiveness... you can't set yourself free until you've set them free. I find it childish that I'm still holding onto those memories of pain- I can't expect anyone else to let go if I haven't yet, but I know that if I could forgive everyone whose ever hurt me, I'd be so much happier as a person.